cOnNectionz..

Babies,
i borrowed books from the library 2day...
and its about communication among human..
and how to improve relationship among human...

Its really a quite interesting topic...
err...
let me share what i've read...
in the book,
first, the author say...
we should have our own value...
everyone meant to have their self-value and wanted to be seen important by anyone...
Do eye connections with the 1 you are communicating or interacting too...
make them feel that they are important...
Human are funny...
we hope everyone to notice us, to see what we've done, and to listen what we've said..
so, when others are speaking u should listen,
when others are listening u should speak in a really polite way,
when others are noticing u, do good examples...
RESPECT in my dictionary...
is to earn for...
not for making or threatening others to pay u respect....

Second,
smile always...
A smile always make people feel warm from the bottom of the heart...
Differences between a white man...and a yellow is...
oriental people are given the message''not to speak with strangers'' since we were in our young age...
but the westerns do say ''hi'' to anyone they do not know, or always give others a smile whenever they have an eye contact...
Yea,, i do agree that the world is going sick with bad guys...
but i still blieve the majority of us are good people...
so as i say...
don't judge people from their looking...
first give a smile to someone u do not know, next try to know them more..only u set a conclusion how this person works...
Its really unfair to judge somebody from your first impression...
but this is normal...
coz everybody have their own feeling...
but after having an s.o.s from ur brain...then interpret it, analyse it, and do the experimenting...
u guys know what i mean...
its like when u see somebody dirty and look ugly,
ur brain will send u an s.o.s''he's a dirty rubbish dont go near..or whateva kinda s.o.s''
after u interpret and analyse...do not make it as ur conclusion yet...
do what u always do in the lab...experimenting...
try to imteract with that dirty guy...
MAYBE you will find him kind, clever, and bla bla bla lah...
ok...notice its just MAYBE...
but if when u feel he is really not that kinda ''good guy''
get ur ass out of his or her way...haha..

third,
do think about what you have done for the day...
we should clearly know what are our mistakes and try our very best to correct it...
remember,
when u are trying to point on somebody and say something bad about them...
the other four of your fingers are pointing at yourself...
what if i ask u...what can u see from a window...
ur answer will be car, bushes, apartments, girlss or whateva la...
but if i drag u in front of a mirrow...
what will u see...
you'll see yourself rite???
have u ever think...
mirror are also made up of glasses that can be made to windows ...but after mercury are put on it...
it becomes mirror...
it reflects urself...
so, do stand in front of the mirror,
think what have u done wrong today, what have u did right today,
and what are the things u need to improve...

ok...i'm sure u guys like to be praise by someone...
me too la of course...i'm also human being...
common sense...
there are two salesman..standing in front of you...
promoting the same thing...
and salesman A say...
'' this is ink pen, use for writing and drawing''
but salesman B say...
'' leng lui/leng zai, are you free??? sorry for disturbing, this is a product from my company, it is called magical ink pen, and it suit u a lot...coz its nice and u look fabulous too''
ok i sure buy from salesman B...
coz...i like to be praise...
if u choose salesman A...i'm speechles and u are a jerk..hehe...
technique of speaking is hard to learn..
u cannot hurt somebody,
u cannot praise somebody too over,
u cannot be too straight to the point...
it's a knowledge to learn...
so...
those who have less friends learn more...
u will get ur circle larger..i promise...

last, its where until i read the book...
don't be shy, and wait for the others to come and know u better...
in this century,
teenagers should be more open minded...
and of course active la...
you should step up first...don't always wait for the others to talk to you first...
as i say...
start with a smile...haha...
if u refuse to speak...
i am kinda sure...
guys u are going to kek lok si...be monk...
and girls u are going to join the...virginity club...
get it???

so that's all for today...
until i finish the book...
then i'll tell babes more about it...
lovey-love...
mwakzz...and take care...


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6.37pm
24/4/08